22/06/2026
One of many things people ask me is, how do you keep fun alive? At first one might overlook the silly question, but when you look deeper and think about it. Are people having fun as they age or after they get married?
Couples start taking each other for granted and stop having date night. Soon they start to focus on mistakes their partner makes verses the good they do. They seem to talk more about what wrong then right. Ater more time pass, less enjoyable romance is.
The bedroom time becomes boring time, and both are wishing it last for three minutes or less so they can go to sleep. I'm sure like having kids and feeling like mom/dad doesn't help either. You're working 10 hr days and have more work when you come home.
The problems are when you stop doing the things, that led you two together, start to move apart both mentally and physically.
Here is something simple you can do, set little time each day to flirt with each other, say something nice that builds your partner up. Next at least once or twice a month just two go on date.
Lastly spend time together can be anything, church, shopping, walk. Don't forget to laugh, humor does a lot for stress.
Yes, if your relationship is in trouble, please get help.