10/12/2024
I felt somewhat depressed recently, even though personally I was in the best life possible. In my younger years, I dated a wonderful girl and although our lives drifted apart (we both married others and raised families) and I love her so much. About 5 years ago, both being recently divorced, we reconnected. This year we married and have been very happy with each other.
The source of my depression is our sex life. Turning 70 (she is a few years younger), I don’t feel I can satisfy her. She does not make me feel that way, but I can no longer maintain the erection that I’ve had and used so many times in the past. My libido is down and it takes everything we can do to get me aroused.
I believe she feels it is my lack of feelings for her, but nothing can be further from the truth. So, this is where my plan began.
For the past year, I’ve been making comments about having a threesome with another man. At first, she wouldn’t consider this. But slowly, during periods of foreplay, I would talk about different scenarios. I found that the more I talked about it, the more aroused (and wet) she would become. Even the idea of her being with another man while I sat watching seemed more of a turn on for her.
The plan I came up with was this:
I would meet a man in a bar sometime and start the conversation stated above. I would know if he was sympathetic to the idea and if not, end the discussion. But if he actually showed interest, I would lay out my plan to him. It would start by me telling her that I reunited with a guy I used to work with (years ago) at a bar.
He recently moved into the area and was living alone (widowed or divorced). I thought about inviting him to our house for dinner, but wanted to ask her first. Of course, she would say yes.
Prior to the house visit, I would prep the guy about how and where we knew each other. If she asked him questions, he would be prepared. At this first dinner, it would probably just be social. Afterwards, I’d ask her how it went. As long as she said it was good, the next step would be to set up another get together.
Maybe watching a football game on TV. But this time, I would have him arrive while I was out on a store run and he would arrive early. I would call her and say I got held up and to do her best to entertain him. Maybe sit down and have a drink or so.
I would suggest (in advance) that he continue small talk and stay close to her. At some point, he could make a comment about how lonely it is living by himself. She might touch him caringly or he could stand close and either rub her back or sit next to her on the sofa and touch her leg while joking around. If this didn’t get things started, I would come home and start to tease them both a bit.
At some time, after several drinks, I would make a couple of innuendos about a threesome with another man. He could act shy but keep eye contact with her. And hopefully, off to the races.
What I told her in private during our talks was that she should set the ground rules: no kissing, no anal and no pain. Everyone needed to know she was in charge of the action. Maybe she could get in the shower and I would send him in to join her. Once she saw his erection, I’m sure she would engage.
Once out of the shower, he could sit on the edge of the bed and she could caress and start to suck his cock. Who doesn’t like that? I know I’d love to watch. He would change positions, leaning her back and start to lick her pussy. Once she got hot and wet, I could strip out of my clothes and find a place to watch and stroke my cock. Then he would move his body between her legs and start a slow, deep fuck. She likes that, especially if he is long. (I’m only 4 ½” hard, so even a nice hard 6” cock would be great for her).
Since I have trouble getting and maintaining a hard on, so at this point I might or might not join in. Instead, I thought I’d wait until she got flipped over to her hands and knees. That way, I could be in front of her at the perfect level to get my cock sucked (hard or soft is still good), while he grabbed her ass and started stroking slowly, all the way to his balls. As he picked up speed and force, she would be moved back and forth on my now hard cock.
As this is still a fantasy, I hold out hope that SOMEDAY soon, I can find the right man to fulfill it.