04/01/2024
Maybe you always dreamed of doing some of the things you read about on this site. Things like stripping, flashing, skinny dipping, nudism, or exhibitionism. But somehow, you’ve never managed to work up the courage to pull it off. Or maybe you’ve daydreamed of your partner being a little more adventurous, but they don’t want to.
If you’re in that boat, have no fear! You can overcome these inhibitions (without turning to substances). Start by taking baby steps, and you’ll get to the destination eventually.
First things first, as always, be aware that branching out and exploring a new side of you may bring some unintentional consequences. Legally, know what the law for your area is regarding public nudity, etc. Generally, even if you live in an area where it’s allowed, you’re not allowed to practice it around kids. Be considerate of your friends, family, and neighbors — some people just aren’t ready to see you au natural. And of course, practice common sense and stay away from an unsafe environment.
The first Building Confidence dare was posted on 2 December 2023. If you need to build up the confidence to take on this dare, I recommend you go back and start with the first one.
Risk Factor: 3/5
Location: Your backyard.
If you’ve been following along this far, you’ve gotten somewhat comfortable being naked around the house, you’ve flashed your nude body through the window, and you’ve even exposed yourself by standing outside your door in the buff. Oh, what fun we’re having! And every time you complete a dare, you’re building your confidence. Keep up the good work!
For this dare, I want you nude for hours leading up to it. You’ll have time, as you won’t do this until after dark, probably not until after your neighbors are in bed or watching TV. Go about your evening routine as you have been, and build the anticipation. This is going to be a big step!
To prep, start by walking in your backyard (fully clothed) during the day or with a flashlight. Note any holes, branches, or other hazards. Remember, this is supposed to be fun. A trip to the ER because you fell and broke something is not fun, so use caution and common sense. While you’re at it, also check to see if there’s automatic lights that come on when they sense motion. If you want to leave them up and on that’s fine, just be aware of where you’ll trigger them. An easy way to turn them off without uninstalling them is to put a piece of painters tape over the sensor if they’re not controlled by a switch in your house.
When it’s time, turn off all the lights and open your back door. Step out and feel the breeze on your naked body! Make sure the door is unlocked before closing it behind you. Your date is to run to the edge of your backyard (shoes are allowed but barefoot is encouraged), do a minimum of twenty jumping jacks, then run back to your house. Feel the adrenaline as you realize you’ve passed a new milestone — you’ve become a streaker!
Now, I write this fully aware that it’s January, right in the middle of winter for most of the northern hemisphere. If it’s so cold outside that being exposed to the elements for even a few seconds could cause harm, just pass on this dare for now. Save it for later. But if you’re just wining about being cold — don’t be such a coward. You got this, and you’ll warm back up in a few minutes.
If you have a privacy fence, great. But if you don’t, that doesn’t give you a pass on this dare. You’ll just have to hope no one looks out the window at just the right moment, which should give you even more adrenaline.
If your yard has no fence and backs up to your neighbor’s house, you get an option here. You have to run at least half way, but if you want, you can choose to run up to 10 yards / meters away from their house. The closer you are, the more likely you are to be seen — and the bigger the rush you’ll get!
For bonus points, instead of doing jumping jacks, you can get yourself off if you’re feeling horny. But remember, like all the previous dares, once you start you can’t stop, even if someone sees you or you change your mind. So choose wisely — but I’ll tell you from personal experience, it’s way more fun this way.
If you live in an apartment / condo / flat, you can do a modified version of this dare. Either step out on your balcony and do your nude jumping jacks there, or go out the door and down the hallway / walkway / stairs for 30 yards / meters. Again, no turning back once you’ve started.
Partners, on this dare you can lock the dare taker out, but only if they (1) go outside and refuse to do all their jumping jacks, or (2) don’t go far enough in the yard. If they get locked out, the only way you can let them back in is for them to restart the dare and complete it all the way this time. Don’t be a dick about it through; remember, you’re supposed to be helping your partner build confidence.
Next time, though, you’ll get to lock the door and walk away. Stay tuned for the next dare, it will be worth it!
Poster:
A Nude Friend