10/12/2023
Maybe you always dreamed of doing some of the things you read about on this site. Things like stripping, flashing, skinny dipping, nudism, or exhibitionism. But somehow, you’ve never managed to work up the courage to pull it off. Or maybe you’ve daydreamed of your partner being a little more adventurous, but they don’t want to.
If you’re in that boat, have no fear! You can overcome these inhibitions (without turning to substances). Start by taking baby steps, and you’ll get to the destination eventually.
First things first, as always, be aware that branching out and exploring a new side of you may bring some unintentional consequences. Legally, know what the law for your area is regarding public nudity, etc. Generally, even if you live in an area where it’s allowed, you’re not allowed to practice it around kids. Be considerate of your friends, family, and neighbors — some people just aren’t ready to see you au natural. And of course, practice common sense and stay away from an unsafe environment.
The first Building Confidence dare was posted on 2 December 2023. If you need to build up the confidence to take on this dare, I recommend you go back and start with the first one.
Risk Factor: 2/5
Location: Your place.
If you’ve successfully completed Dare 2, you’ve been wandering around your house butt naked for a few days / weeks now. The uncontrollable horniness has subsided enough that you can handle doing your usual evening routine. This is good because, let’s face it, most of us still have lives that we have to live. BUT — we don’t want to become so desensitized to our nudity that we lose all the fun. This dare will take you to the next level and bring some fun along the way.
To set up, continue doing everything you’ve done up to this point. Home from work, strip down, evening routine, etc. This dare will take place later at night, when your neighbors have likely gone to bed. In my neighborhood, most people are watching TV by 11:00 PM and aren’t likely to look out their window after that point. Barring the random car that might drive by, I’m not likely to be seen after that point.
Whenever that time is for you, stay up until then. When it’s time, go over to a window, check to make sure no one is right there, and open the curtains or blinds all the way. Stand there fully nude and bask in the chance that someone might see you!
Now there is a trick for doing this dare. Whatever room you choose, make sure to turn off all the lights in it and the hallway. Remember, you’re still building confidence. At this point, you don’t want the neighbors to see you in the nude yet, so make sure you’re not backlit.
Start with standing there for 5 seconds, then close the curtain. That was exciting, wasn’t it? Feel the adrenaline as you go to another window and repeat the process, this time for 30 seconds, than again for a full minute. If you checked beforehand to make sure no one was looking, you’re not allowed to close those curtains or blinds for any reason!
If you have a back yard, this is a great place to start. Eventually, you’ll want to move on to the front yard windows, where there’s a chance someone might accidentally see you. But remember, baby steps.
If you can stand there, fully exposed for a full minute, there’s a good chance you’re feeling horny. I know I was. Start touching yourself after the one minute mark. You may or may not want to cum in the window, but start there. Go back to a more private space to finish as needed. If your partner is on board, have them start touching you. You never know where it will go. ;-D
By now, you’ve built a lot of confidence, much more than just a few weeks ago. Date 4 is coming soon and will take you to the next level.
Poster:
A Nude Friend