02/12/2023
Maybe you always dreamed of doing some of the things you read about on this site. Things like stripping, flashing, skinny dipping, nudism, or exhibitionism. But somehow, you’ve never managed to work up the courage to pull it off. Or maybe you’ve daydreamed of your partner being a little more adventurous, but they don’t want to.
If you’re in that boat, have no fear! You can overcome these inhibitions (without turning to substances). Start by taking baby steps, and you’ll get to the destination eventually.
First things first, as always, be aware that branching out and exploring a new side of you may bring some unintentional consequences. Legally, know what the law for your area is regarding public nudity, etc. Generally, even if you live in an area where it’s allowed, you’re not allowed to practice it around kids. Be considerate of your friends, family, and neighbors — some people just aren’t ready to see you au natural. And of course, practice common sense and stay away from an unsafe environment.
Risk Factor: 1/5
Location: Your place.
For Dare 1, let’s start at the beginning and assume you’re really not comfortable in your skin, at least outside of bedroom and bathing time. If you live with a partner, talk with them about your desire to be more adventurous. If you can, get them to walk the journey with you, but don’t be pushy. You don’t want to turn them off or lose that relationship. At the very least, see if you can get them to agree to allow you to do a few dares. Once they’re comfortable with you doing a few things, or if you’re single and living on your own, begin.
Start your day as you always do. Wake up, shower, eat breakfast, go to work, etc. This dare doesn’t start until you get home from work and aren’t expecting company. Simply start by taking off your shirt. Give it to your partner, or if you’re single, make a promise to yourself that you won’t put it back on until tomorrow. Then go about your business as usual. Do everything you normally do, just without a shirt. Close all your curtains or blinds, and stay inside. No one but your partner will see you shirtless.
Do this for a few days. When you get home and are unlikely to get visitors, take off your shirt and enjoy your evening as usual. You’re not allowed to cover up for anything except an unexpected guest. This is only the first dare, so you get that privilege :-)
(Note: as a matter of safety, consider wearing an apron while cooking. You do get a pass for safety.)
After a few days of being shirtless, you may still feel slightly embarrassed but should be gaining more confidence. If you need to, take another week to get used to this feeling. Remember, you always wanted to give this a try, and this is the first step. Smile, and be confident in your wonderful body! Just because you don’t feel sexy doesn’t mean that you’re not. You are, and you’ve got this!
After a maximum of two weeks being shirtless in the evenings, it’s time for step two. It’s time to lose the pants, shorts, and skirts. Now, when you would normally take off your shirt for the evening, take off everything but your underwear (leave socks if you want them). Ladies, you can keep the bra if you want, your choice.
Once again, all your curtains and blinds are closed, and no one from the outside world can see you. You’re ok, there’s no need to panic or be worried. When I first got to this stage, I was nervous and horny as could be. If that’s you, go relieve yourself, then come out with only your underwear back on. Stay that way for the rest of the evening, and again do your usual routine.
At this point, you may be wondering about sleep. Yes, the dare includes sleeping, both shirtless and in your underwear. The first time you do this may be difficult if you’ve not done it before, so your first night should be one that you can sleep in a little extra if need be the following morning. If you absolutely must, but your shirt back on the first few nights. But make it a point to get comfortable sleeping without one as soon as possible. Believe me, you can always go back to sleeping with clothes fairly easily. It’s training your body to relax without them that’s the hard part.
Ok, you’re learning to be comfortable in only your underwear for the next few days. You should stay at this stage until you’re comfortable in your undies, no matter how long it takes. Once you feel confident that the world isn’t going to end if you’re not fully dressed at all hours of the day, congratulations! You’re well on your way to achieving your fantasy.
Dare 2 (coming soon) will take you to the next level.
Poster:
A Nude Friend