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SCOTT - This is a long true story but if you are thinking of sharing your spouse take the time to read it all.
Where do I even start this?
I am 60 years old, slightly overweight being 5'10" and 200 pounds. In my opinion nothing much to look at. Sam on the other hand is 54 and stands at 5'4" has great curves and has a set of ta tas that are to die for. Does not believe she is hot. Yes, I married way outside my league.
When It comes to our marriage, this is our second for both of us, I don't believe there could be two people more suited and more in love with each other than Sam and I. There is nothing I wouldn't do for Sam and I believe she feels the same about me.
I have always had the fetish of having Sam be seen by others, I have not been alone in this, Sam has bought, on her own, a completely sheer dress and a few see through shirts and others to surprise me when we have gone out, and now Sam still will use them for flashing or to have a full on ta ta out for someone to see.
Our sex life has always been good but when she will play it was always much better.
Now anyone who has tried to do flashing and or nipple slips can tell you it's not as easy as you would think.
Most people will never even notice or look. Maybe 1 out of 20 will see. We did have one day where everyone looked.
We did find a guy that did look and he was an easy one to flash and play with. For about two years, every few weeks we would swing in and see him as a way for Sam to make my fetish work for us.
With time we had him start to come to our house for a meal and Sam was always in a shirt that would have her ta tas out. After he started coming over it took another year for Sam to allow him to play with her ta tas. That is when I found out how much I liked seeing Sam getting played with by someone.
About a year and a half after he started to get to play with her he started dating a woman and decided that he shouldn't be playing with Sam when he was dating. Our sex life took a dive. It was hard to get Sam back in the habit of playing again when we went out. It had become so easy when we could play at home.
His dating lasted maybe nine months and he came back to play again but we could tell he wanted more from it. Sam and I talked about it and we came up with he could do anything he wanted with her other then full on sex.
NO SEX.
On days he would be here, when he was ready to go Sam would give him a blowjob. So for more than a year it went on this way.
With time we found him not to be a good fit for us and started to slow it down. Then it came to a stop. Again our sex life came to a slow death.
I even made Sam a deal that from May 1st to September 1st if she did a full on ta ta out slip and we both knew the person saw it that I would take off my beard for her. She doesn't care much for my beard. I never lost that beard.
Sam did do a flash but it was well before May 1st so outside the deal time frame. None after.
Something had to change to get our sex life back up and running so I asked Sam if I could find a new guy to play with. I think Sam also knew our sex life was tanking so she said to see what we could find. AFF here we go.
(http://adultpersonalspage.com/)
Let me tell you, there are some real wackadoodles out there and also some very lonely people.
Long story short, we did find a guy about our age, or at least Sam's age, that we thought would work. Sam told me to make sure that he knew up front that this would be anything but full on sex. When I talked to him I made it abundantly clear that he could do and have anything he would like but no full sex. We set up an in person meeting with him a few days later.
Sam put on one of her better shirts for showing off her ta tas and put her jacket over it. Sam and him sat at a corner booth in a fast food place and started talking as I went to get us something to eat.
By the time I was back to the table with our food Sam had opened her jacket and had her ta tas out in full view. It looked like a good match.
As we sat and talked he made no bones of looking at Sam's ta tas. Soon he asked if he and I could trade places so he could play with them. So for about the next hour we all talked as he played with Sam.
We decided to have him come over to our house the next Sunday.
When we got home Sam finally looked at his profile and she could see how big he was, A full seven inches. I'm at the bottom end of average and he is well above average. She really didn't say anything about it but did say again "he knows there will be no sex". Yes dear.
Sunday finally gets here and Sam is getting ready for his arrival dressed in a mini skirt, high heels and a white shelf bra, her choice in outfit, and nothing else. We are standing in our kitchen waiting and Sam again asks if he knew there will be no out and out sex to which I again tell her he knows. Then she said something I found odd and that was "I'm nervous".
When he walked in he wasted no time but immediately went over to Sam, who was standing in the kitchen, and began to kiss and caress her. This is what Sam likes is a guy, that is,a little aggressive.
Within a few minutes he had her top off and was kneeling in front of her playing with one ta ta, as he was sucking on her other. With his other hand he reached under her mini skirt and found her G Spot. Soon Sam was having her first of many squirting orgasms.
Not long after it was taken to the bedroom so he could go down on her to bring her to another orgasm and then another by finding her G Spot again with a finger.
Sam started to give him a blow job and that is when I found that she could deepthroat his full seven inches. He was trying to get Sam to spin around to do a 69. She did spin around and was well below his cock and as she moved up she stopped with her pussy over his cock and started to grind on it.
How it didn't go in was beyond me. Sam went back to giving him his blow job and as she was he asked if she wanted it. Sam looked at me and softly said "yes".
Sam took my hand and held it as he started to enter her and she never let go of it. She had one of the hardest orgasms I've ever seen her have. When he was done and went to clean up, Sam was all but in tears. She told me that she didn't know what came over her.
This would not ever change how she felt about me and how sorry she was for letting it happen. I reassured her that it was okay and that we would talk after he left. She never did say that it wouldn't happen again.
When he left I assured Sam that it was ok and that I had always hoped that one day this would happen. Soon things settled and we made love. I do believe twice before we went out for supper and again after we got back. I can't tell you how many times we did over the next few days.
We had him back a week later and this time it went much like the last time but they had sex in many different positions and Sam had more screaming orgasms than I could count. We again followed that with us having more sex then I think either of us can remember.
One of the things with this guy was that he was extremely hard to get hold of and pin down as to when he would come next.
Always something coming up or no response from him at all. To go along with this, in my opinion Sam was throwing herself at this guy, all but begging him to come back.
Offered him to come watch a football game, with her as pre game, half time and post game entertainment if he would come back. It was getting to the point that it was really pissing me off. We finally talked or I should say argued about it and decided to end it with him.
We did find a new guy to come and take his place. He is seventeen years younger than Sam but I think he is a much better fit for us. Sam is not going over the top with this one.
Now here is the thing anyone thinking of doing this is; are you really ready for it? Do you think that you can handle seeing your spouse having sex with someone and see them having fantastic sex in front of you?
They will have some of the best orgasms you have ever seen, way better than you have ever given them. They will allow this person to do things to them that you are not allowed to do. They will also do things you may never have thought they would do. Is your ego really ready for it?
One of the things that I found hard to deal with was that Sam has never been a great fan of having her ta tas played with and even less if I got a little rough with them. It had gotten to the point that I almost never touched them or even looked at them.
To see a guy squeeze them so hard that it took several seconds for the blood to come back into them or to see him pushing and then pulling her back onto him using her ta tas extremely hard while doing doggy position was a difficult one for me to see. We have talked and it is better now but I still know I would never get away with what he did.
Two things that surprised me was one that Sam could deepthroat the guy and the other was that she went right from fucking him to deepthroating him. I would have gone in and washed before I would have even asked for a blow job.
Think long and hard over it before you try. First off if your marriage is not the best this probably won't fix it but more than likely end it. If you have a rock solid marriage like Sam and I do it can be fun for both of you.
I would still say think long and hard about it first. Honesty and trust have to be high on the list. I believe Sam holds back some when she even speaks of this and I wish she wouldn't but this goes to that honesty and trust thing.
I think she believes she will hurt my feelings or that I might be shocked by what she says. That could never happen.
Like I said I'm on the bottom end of average and I knew Sam's first husband was bigger. Sam and I do have a great sex life and I can often make her squirt when we have sex, something she says her first husband never could do.
Because I love Sam so much I wanted her to have what I couldn't give her and in my opinion that was and is a fantastic sex life.
I still don't know why Sam made the decision to have sex with the guy or as to when that decision was made. Sam said she decided to go for it when she was grinding on the guy's cock when she was on top of him.
In my opinion I think it was made long before that ever happened. I'm just glad that it happened and we are having fun with it. Do I think Sam will be without a lover? I think Sam has found this to be extremely fun so I would have to say no, not for a long time to come.
Am I worried about it? Not at all. I know what Sam is to me and I'm sure the same is for her. There is so much more to a strong marriage then just sex. In fact sex is a very small part of it.
I still want Sam to continue to do the flashing and ta ta slips and have guys see her. My hope is that now that we have gone this far that she will find the flashing and ta ta slips easier to do. Don't want to get stuck in the rut of only playing at home again.
You will find a link to the posts we have done on Truth or DarePics.com here. If you are thinking of sharing your spouse and you would like to ask questions you can reach us by the email on our posts.
Now I'm hoping Sam will also take the time to add to this post. What changed her mind on no sex and her overall thoughts on what is happening.
SAM -
Being the second marriage for both of us, we have both learned that true love is putting our priorities in place. That is faith, spouse, family and then work. Scott and I get along super well and love to do things for each other. Laughter and honesty get us through so much. We enjoy many things together.
Scott is way more forward with sexuality than I am! I am quite reserved. I think of myself as just me. I'm nothing great but not bad either. Do I like to have fun? Yes.
I have purchased sheer clothing to wear when not near home. However, Scott's fetish with me exposing myself has caused me great angst and nervousness. It goes against what I was religiously brought up with. However, a marriage does need some spice. So I had to fight off a super amount of guilt to attempt slips and outright exposure.
Once we had found the guy to play with at first, it was okay as this took a long time and I knew he was safe. He wouldn't talk, set me up or use either of us. So I let it slowly progress. Scott was suggesting things to do. I realized that he thought about sexuality a lot!! It amazed me how much he and other guys did. That's not how my mind works. I am comfortable reacting and not having detailed plans.
I had been very uncomfortable playing when people we knew could be around. I have worked with so many people where we live. So playing at home was good.
It was much easier plus Scott and I enjoyed great sex afterwards. Once this no longer worked out, Scott's desire to show me off took a higher level of daring to work. I tried but it also caused me tension.
Anonymity was important to me. Our routine became just that, a routine. As much as I did not like to expose myself, I did once this year when we were driving past a semi. Ooops, Scott said it was too early, before May 1.
That really took the steam out of my desire to do that again. I also didn't like to do that when we were away from the home as the follow up was so far off. So my desire to do that waned.
When Scott proposed the idea of meeting guys via online groups I was both tentative and "oh what the he--". Being tentative comes from having no clue who truly is on the other end of the computer typing. It could be a wackadoodle!!
That is nerve racking, but Scott would be with me.The "oh what the he--" comes from if I'm going this far outside my norm, why not chance it? So okay Scott, screened them and set up a public but secluded spot that others have no clue what we were up to. Scott had previously wanted me to set up a meeting with a guy that gave me his number while at work. Red flags went up with him, so I said that I would not.
I am not comfortable freely talking about what I do sexually so I will summarize my thoughts and feelings without details.
It seems that Scott feels that being endowed means more pleasure for me. Well that is not true! It is how the whole experience comes together that makes it great! I like the feeling of being gently caressed, whispering in my ear, playing with my whole boob as opposed to pulling it out (that hurts when standing or laying on my back!!), use of lube (way more smooth and less irritation).
If I am on top and my boobs are hanging down, they can be pulled on a bit more. Scott is an all or none type of personality so he stopped playing with my boobs. It's the same with car windows- all they way down or up😉.
It does matter pain wise how things are done. If your gal pulls away or scowls, kindly ask how to do it differently.
This new experience made me sooooo nervous. Who was this person really? I am exposing myself to pretty much a stranger. Oh my word!!! I felt like a slut.
Once I got over that and he was going down on me it was like the first time but no loving feelings there. I would not look at him in the eyes or ever think of cuddling. Once he asked if I wanted it I was at the point that since we had gone this far why not enjoy the sex. Scott was there and I would not have done that without being able to hold his hand. The guilt was intense!!!!
Then came the games of him not answering texts or leading us to think he would be coming over but....not. That really ticked me off!! He could have had a family situation that made committing to a day difficult.
I have worked in such situations. So I gave him leeway and we texted him on Scott's phone. Well that really did not set well with Scott.
He felt I was obsessed but I really wasn't. I was fishing for the truth. Don't play mind games. I have previously had a guy play mind games. If you can't make it or don't want to just straight out say it!! Scott and I got over that by communicating.
The second guy is a much better fit. He is straight to the point and responds reasonably and there is no hint of being used. Is it fun? Different styles are. Is it necessary? No, because Scott and I love each other. I do think that this has helped Scott also try and think of different things to do and try. Not to mention me learning new things!!!! This has truly helped Scott and I. We can have so much more fun together now 😀
So be prepared. There is a fine line between pain and joy, between excitement and frustration, letting things get out of control and spicing things up. Be sure that both of you are open about thoughts and feelings. Do not assume what your spouse is thinking or feeling as men and women are different.
Am I having fun? Yes indeed.
SCOTT - This is a long true story but if you are thinking of sharing your spouse take the time to read it all.
Where do I even start this?
I am 60 years old, slightly overweight being 5'10" and 200 pounds. In my opinion nothing much to look at. Sam on the other hand is 54 and stands at 5'4" has great curves and has a set of ta tas that are to die for. Does not believe she is hot. Yes, I married way outside my league.
When It comes to our marriage, this is our second for both of us, I don't believe there could be two people more suited and more in love with each other than Sam and I. There is nothing I wouldn't do for Sam and I believe she feels the same about me.
I have always had the fetish of having Sam be seen by others, I have not been alone in this, Sam has bought, on her own, a completely sheer dress and a few see through shirts and others to surprise me when we have gone out, and now Sam still will use them for flashing or to have a full on ta ta out for someone to see.
Our sex life has always been good but when she will play it was always much better.
Now anyone who has tried to do flashing and or nipple slips can tell you it's not as easy as you would think.
Most people will never even notice or look. Maybe 1 out of 20 will see. We did have one day where everyone looked.
We did find a guy that did look and he was an easy one to flash and play with. For about two years, every few weeks we would swing in and see him as a way for Sam to make my fetish work for us.
With time we had him start to come to our house for a meal and Sam was always in a shirt that would have her ta tas out. After he started coming over it took another year for Sam to allow him to play with her ta tas. That is when I found out how much I liked seeing Sam getting played with by someone.
About a year and a half after he started to get to play with her he started dating a woman and decided that he shouldn't be playing with Sam when he was dating. Our sex life took a dive. It was hard to get Sam back in the habit of playing again when we went out. It had become so easy when we could play at home.
His dating lasted maybe nine months and he came back to play again but we could tell he wanted more from it. Sam and I talked about it and we came up with he could do anything he wanted with her other then full on sex.
NO SEX.
On days he would be here, when he was ready to go Sam would give him a blowjob. So for more than a year it went on this way.
With time we found him not to be a good fit for us and started to slow it down. Then it came to a stop. Again our sex life came to a slow death.
I even made Sam a deal that from May 1st to September 1st if she did a full on ta ta out slip and we both knew the person saw it that I would take off my beard for her. She doesn't care much for my beard. I never lost that beard.
Sam did do a flash but it was well before May 1st so outside the deal time frame. None after.
Something had to change to get our sex life back up and running so I asked Sam if I could find a new guy to play with. I think Sam also knew our sex life was tanking so she said to see what we could find. AFF here we go.
(http://adultpersonalspage.com/)
Let me tell you, there are some real wackadoodles out there and also some very lonely people.
Long story short, we did find a guy about our age, or at least Sam's age, that we thought would work. Sam told me to make sure that he knew up front that this would be anything but full on sex. When I talked to him I made it abundantly clear that he could do and have anything he would like but no full sex. We set up an in person meeting with him a few days later.
Sam put on one of her better shirts for showing off her ta tas and put her jacket over it. Sam and him sat at a corner booth in a fast food place and started talking as I went to get us something to eat.
By the time I was back to the table with our food Sam had opened her jacket and had her ta tas out in full view. It looked like a good match.
As we sat and talked he made no bones of looking at Sam's ta tas. Soon he asked if he and I could trade places so he could play with them. So for about the next hour we all talked as he played with Sam.
We decided to have him come over to our house the next Sunday.
When we got home Sam finally looked at his profile and she could see how big he was, A full seven inches. I'm at the bottom end of average and he is well above average. She really didn't say anything about it but did say again "he knows there will be no sex". Yes dear.
Sunday finally gets here and Sam is getting ready for his arrival dressed in a mini skirt, high heels and a white shelf bra, her choice in outfit, and nothing else. We are standing in our kitchen waiting and Sam again asks if he knew there will be no out and out sex to which I again tell her he knows. Then she said something I found odd and that was "I'm nervous".
When he walked in he wasted no time but immediately went over to Sam, who was standing in the kitchen, and began to kiss and caress her. This is what Sam likes is a guy, that is,a little aggressive.
Within a few minutes he had her top off and was kneeling in front of her playing with one ta ta, as he was sucking on her other. With his other hand he reached under her mini skirt and found her G Spot. Soon Sam was having her first of many squirting orgasms.
Not long after it was taken to the bedroom so he could go down on her to bring her to another orgasm and then another by finding her G Spot again with a finger.
Sam started to give him a blow job and that is when I found that she could deepthroat his full seven inches. He was trying to get Sam to spin around to do a 69. She did spin around and was well below his cock and as she moved up she stopped with her pussy over his cock and started to grind on it.
How it didn't go in was beyond me. Sam went back to giving him his blow job and as she was he asked if she wanted it. Sam looked at me and softly said "yes".
Sam took my hand and held it as he started to enter her and she never let go of it. She had one of the hardest orgasms I've ever seen her have. When he was done and went to clean up, Sam was all but in tears. She told me that she didn't know what came over her.
This would not ever change how she felt about me and how sorry she was for letting it happen. I reassured her that it was okay and that we would talk after he left. She never did say that it wouldn't happen again.
When he left I assured Sam that it was ok and that I had always hoped that one day this would happen. Soon things settled and we made love. I do believe twice before we went out for supper and again after we got back. I can't tell you how many times we did over the next few days.
We had him back a week later and this time it went much like the last time but they had sex in many different positions and Sam had more screaming orgasms than I could count. We again followed that with us having more sex then I think either of us can remember.
One of the things with this guy was that he was extremely hard to get hold of and pin down as to when he would come next.
Always something coming up or no response from him at all. To go along with this, in my opinion Sam was throwing herself at this guy, all but begging him to come back.
Offered him to come watch a football game, with her as pre game, half time and post game entertainment if he would come back. It was getting to the point that it was really pissing me off. We finally talked or I should say argued about it and decided to end it with him.
We did find a new guy to come and take his place. He is seventeen years younger than Sam but I think he is a much better fit for us. Sam is not going over the top with this one.
Now here is the thing anyone thinking of doing this is; are you really ready for it? Do you think that you can handle seeing your spouse having sex with someone and see them having fantastic sex in front of you?
They will have some of the best orgasms you have ever seen, way better than you have ever given them. They will allow this person to do things to them that you are not allowed to do. They will also do things you may never have thought they would do. Is your ego really ready for it?
One of the things that I found hard to deal with was that Sam has never been a great fan of having her ta tas played with and even less if I got a little rough with them. It had gotten to the point that I almost never touched them or even looked at them.
To see a guy squeeze them so hard that it took several seconds for the blood to come back into them or to see him pushing and then pulling her back onto him using her ta tas extremely hard while doing doggy position was a difficult one for me to see. We have talked and it is better now but I still know I would never get away with what he did.
Two things that surprised me was one that Sam could deepthroat the guy and the other was that she went right from fucking him to deepthroating him. I would have gone in and washed before I would have even asked for a blow job.
Think long and hard over it before you try. First off if your marriage is not the best this probably won't fix it but more than likely end it. If you have a rock solid marriage like Sam and I do it can be fun for both of you.
I would still say think long and hard about it first. Honesty and trust have to be high on the list. I believe Sam holds back some when she even speaks of this and I wish she wouldn't but this goes to that honesty and trust thing.
I think she believes she will hurt my feelings or that I might be shocked by what she says. That could never happen.
Like I said I'm on the bottom end of average and I knew Sam's first husband was bigger. Sam and I do have a great sex life and I can often make her squirt when we have sex, something she says her first husband never could do.
Because I love Sam so much I wanted her to have what I couldn't give her and in my opinion that was and is a fantastic sex life.
I still don't know why Sam made the decision to have sex with the guy or as to when that decision was made. Sam said she decided to go for it when she was grinding on the guy's cock when she was on top of him.
In my opinion I think it was made long before that ever happened. I'm just glad that it happened and we are having fun with it. Do I think Sam will be without a lover? I think Sam has found this to be extremely fun so I would have to say no, not for a long time to come.
Am I worried about it? Not at all. I know what Sam is to me and I'm sure the same is for her. There is so much more to a strong marriage then just sex. In fact sex is a very small part of it.
I still want Sam to continue to do the flashing and ta ta slips and have guys see her. My hope is that now that we have gone this far that she will find the flashing and ta ta slips easier to do. Don't want to get stuck in the rut of only playing at home again.
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Now I'm hoping Sam will also take the time to add to this post. What changed her mind on no sex and her overall thoughts on what is happening.
SAM -
Being the second marriage for both of us, we have both learned that true love is putting our priorities in place. That is faith, spouse, family and then work. Scott and I get along super well and love to do things for each other. Laughter and honesty get us through so much. We enjoy many things together.
Scott is way more forward with sexuality than I am! I am quite reserved. I think of myself as just me. I'm nothing great but not bad either. Do I like to have fun? Yes.
I have purchased sheer clothing to wear when not near home. However, Scott's fetish with me exposing myself has caused me great angst and nervousness. It goes against what I was religiously brought up with. However, a marriage does need some spice. So I had to fight off a super amount of guilt to attempt slips and outright exposure.
Once we had found the guy to play with at first, it was okay as this took a long time and I knew he was safe. He wouldn't talk, set me up or use either of us. So I let it slowly progress. Scott was suggesting things to do. I realized that he thought about sexuality a lot!! It amazed me how much he and other guys did. That's not how my mind works. I am comfortable reacting and not having detailed plans.
I had been very uncomfortable playing when people we knew could be around. I have worked with so many people where we live. So playing at home was good.
It was much easier plus Scott and I enjoyed great sex afterwards. Once this no longer worked out, Scott's desire to show me off took a higher level of daring to work. I tried but it also caused me tension.
Anonymity was important to me. Our routine became just that, a routine. As much as I did not like to expose myself, I did once this year when we were driving past a semi. Ooops, Scott said it was too early, before May 1.
That really took the steam out of my desire to do that again. I also didn't like to do that when we were away from the home as the follow up was so far off. So my desire to do that waned.
When Scott proposed the idea of meeting guys via online groups I was both tentative and "oh what the he--". Being tentative comes from having no clue who truly is on the other end of the computer typing. It could be a wackadoodle!!
That is nerve racking, but Scott would be with me.The "oh what the he--" comes from if I'm going this far outside my norm, why not chance it? So okay Scott, screened them and set up a public but secluded spot that others have no clue what we were up to. Scott had previously wanted me to set up a meeting with a guy that gave me his number while at work. Red flags went up with him, so I said that I would not.
I am not comfortable freely talking about what I do sexually so I will summarize my thoughts and feelings without details.
It seems that Scott feels that being endowed means more pleasure for me. Well that is not true! It is how the whole experience comes together that makes it great! I like the feeling of being gently caressed, whispering in my ear, playing with my whole boob as opposed to pulling it out (that hurts when standing or laying on my back!!), use of lube (way more smooth and less irritation).
If I am on top and my boobs are hanging down, they can be pulled on a bit more. Scott is an all or none type of personality so he stopped playing with my boobs. It's the same with car windows- all they way down or up😉.
It does matter pain wise how things are done. If your gal pulls away or scowls, kindly ask how to do it differently.
This new experience made me sooooo nervous. Who was this person really? I am exposing myself to pretty much a stranger. Oh my word!!! I felt like a slut.
Once I got over that and he was going down on me it was like the first time but no loving feelings there. I would not look at him in the eyes or ever think of cuddling. Once he asked if I wanted it I was at the point that since we had gone this far why not enjoy the sex. Scott was there and I would not have done that without being able to hold his hand. The guilt was intense!!!!
Then came the games of him not answering texts or leading us to think he would be coming over but....not. That really ticked me off!! He could have had a family situation that made committing to a day difficult.
I have worked in such situations. So I gave him leeway and we texted him on Scott's phone. Well that really did not set well with Scott.
He felt I was obsessed but I really wasn't. I was fishing for the truth. Don't play mind games. I have previously had a guy play mind games. If you can't make it or don't want to just straight out say it!! Scott and I got over that by communicating.
The second guy is a much better fit. He is straight to the point and responds reasonably and there is no hint of being used. Is it fun? Different styles are. Is it necessary? No, because Scott and I love each other. I do think that this has helped Scott also try and think of different things to do and try. Not to mention me learning new things!!!! This has truly helped Scott and I. We can have so much more fun together now 😀
So be prepared. There is a fine line between pain and joy, between excitement and frustration, letting things get out of control and spicing things up. Be sure that both of you are open about thoughts and feelings. Do not assume what your spouse is thinking or feeling as men and women are different.
Am I having fun? Yes indeed.
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Scott & Sam
