15/04/2021
I'm a single dad of one. Wife 1 and daughter were killed as a result of a drunk driver. He ran a stop light, bounced off a truck, hit a trash bin that crushed them against a wall. The drunk kid was driving his daddy's Jag. Since, his dad is politicaly involved, he settled quickly, so me and my son are set for life. The only reason I went back to work is to keep myself occupied.
So, I met my current wife while at a week long training session held at our university. She's a Bio Prof, I work in Engineering. Right after lunch, I got put in her group to work a problem, and given the rest of the afternoon to work on it. It was a semi-engineering problem. We were done in 30 minutes, so we took a long coffee break at the student union center. She was single, (in fact we were the only single people out of the 50 people in attendance) and she was about 4 younger than I. We hit it off and decided to have a drink after the last class on Friday. I had a 3rd cousin who was a freshman and daily, picked up my son after school and watched him until I got home. I paid her well and because my son is so well mannered, she got to study. So, when I called and asked if she could stay later, she was very much ok with it.
After that drink date we started seeing each other and got married within 2 years. We agreed on a lot of social issues, like the world is over populated, diversity, evolvalution. So before we got married one of her best students suddenly started freaking out. Come to find out their fiancee had cheated on them the week before they were to get married. The was it was apparently a one time deal. (By the way they got married, and his new bride delivered a daughter, 3 days short of 9 months, after the wedding! 2 years later a second child was delivered, they are still married all these years later, no issues.)
Anyway, our discussion was who cheats more, and why. We pretty much agreeded that the why is due to primal survival human race, that is to say, spreading you genes around the pool. Look at how many mamuals have an Alpha male who gets to service an entire herd. Of course, the following year, or two, he's replaced br a stronger, younger Alpha male. Bottom line, every baby the female delivers has a different father, so the gene diversity makes the herd less likely to get wiped out when a desease comes through the herd.
As far who cheats most men / husbands probably do, but, there are also a lot women / wives who do, but the just don't get caught, and definately don't admit it as freely. Reason being for a guy, it's more like bragging rights. For a gal, it's a shameful act, and she gets labled, if the fact ever got out. Take for example, my first wife cheated on me with an ex boy friend. They hated each other, but apparently the sex was fantastic. I came home during lunch, because I tore my pants (seam split), had to change, and get back to work, due to an important meeting in the afternoon. I had no time to spare, basicly, I walked in, she was rideing him, in our bed, his hands on her tits. Since I had zero time, I said nothing, just changed pants and left. Before, I left the room, they started fucking again. I wasn't there fore more than 2 minutes. Apparently, since I said or did nothing, they assumed I was OK with it. Her chesting with him lasted at least a couple of times over a couple of years. I caught them several times. I guess I didn't get upset, because with them it was just sex. It ended when she found out I had plans to go out with another girl. I never went out with her.
The thing is, wife 1 and I did one of those sex surveys. There were several questions about cheating. After we answered the questions, I stuffed both our sheets into the envelope (but didn't seal it, faked the sealing). Next morning, before sealing and putting it the mail box I looked at her answers. Basicly, she never admitted to cheating and said she only had 1 boyfriend before marrying me. At that time I knew she had at least 4 she had told me. After she passed away, I found and still have her diary and box of pictures that included at least 9 other guys actualy with their dicks in her. There are also another 7 guys she was nude with, most were playing with her tits. 2 of those 7 were with her in the same picture. The are holding her up, legs spread, her arms are around their necks. Both guys are hard, and one has his middle finger buried in her pussy. All teh pictures are hot. Before I met wife 2 I would jack off to them several times a week. She only told me about 4 guys before me, had no clue about the others. Not sure if I could have handled it back then, but after a couple of years of jacking off to those picts, now I occasionally have dreams about a 3 sum with wife number 1.
Over Population we agreed couples should only have 2 childern. If the world did this, the populaton of the world flatten and start declining.
So, after we were married a few years, "we" delivered a daughter. A couple of years later she wanted another. I argued I had two already. She argued that she only had 1. She loved my son and always treated him like he was hers, so no issue there. Long story short, she won the argument, so we were going to have another one.
Then, a couple of days later the gene diversity discussion came up. Dummy me didn't even think to put two and two togather. Not thinking she was talking about humans, us & her specifically, I had agreed gene diversity was a good necessary thing. So, it's been a couple of years since "our" second child was born. I decided to get a DNA test to see where I came from.
The results surprised me. Then I remembered my first fooling around, so I had my son's DNA tested. He wasn't mine. I was shocked because he was born long before I caught wife 1 cheating, her tubes were tied when the second child was born healthy. That caused me to wonder, so I had my youngest two tested and my current wife #2 tested too. The first was ours, the second wasn't.
Wel, I keep all my old calendars. I recorded appointments, trips for me and wife, even important stuff that happened to the kids. It didn't take long to figure out my wife got pregnant while attending a conference and 2 week tour in Europe that year. In fact, she should have started her period the day after she got back. She had gotten back on Thursday, just before a 3 day weekend. I had dropped off the kids at my parents, earlier in the day before I picked her up at the airport so we could have a "fun catch-u" 3 days. She has never said anything to me, I've never said anything to her.
So, the original meaning of a Cuck, is the wife getting pregnant by a lover, an her husband raising it as his own. It didn't really include a lot of the actions that we think of today. That's why I have come yo realize I'm an Old School Cuck.