12/01/2021
Although my wife confessed to her three-year long affair, she never told me very much about it until now.
She is finally opening up and telling me how it started. She told me that the first time she met Charles, she could feel that there was “chemistry” between the two of them, they “just clicked”.
She said that there was this feeling that we were on the same wavelength; I knew he liked me. Charles was the first guy to get a taste of my wife and the first time for my wife to experience someone else other than me.
I am just now learning that there were many more guys to follow. This was the start of my wife’s sexual escapades.
The co-worker was actually a consultant (Charles) for the state agency where my wife works. She had known him for about six months, when the following happened at a conference.
This conference was prior to her getting the job that included conference planning. (paraphrase of what my wife told me):
I was at a conference, partying with the folks during the hotel’s happy hour. People were buying me drink’s; Charles was one of them. By the time it came to go to my hotel room, I was pretty tipsy. That is when Charles approached me and told me that he had almost completed the report he was working on, but had a few questions and wanted me to look at it now so he could wrap it up.
I told him that it might be better to wait because I had too much to drink. Charles tells me it’s only a couple things I want you to look at, it won’t take long; he kept insisting. I agreed. As we were walking to his room, I was really feeling the wine, thinking that this will be the first time I will be alone with another guy in a hotel room. We get to his hotel room and go inside.
Charles gets the report and puts it on the desk. He walks up to me, puts his arms around me and gives me a kiss. He keeps holding me, he looks at me, waiting for me to react; I just keep looking at him; he keeps holding me; we are looking at each other; he gives me another kiss; looks at me and waits for my reaction.
I felt an exhilarating rush through my whole body as Charles was looking at me, yet I was scared at the same time of what I knew was coming; something came over me; I start kissing him passionately. I was just caught up in the heat of the moment and was really getting turned on.
The next thing I remember is my blouse was unbuttoned and Charles was taking it off, all the time while we are kissing.
He unbuttoned and unzipped my skirt; skirt fell to the floor. Charles was fumbling around trying to unhook my bra from the back, thinking that it unhooked from the back; I unhook my bra, which was hooked in the front.
I knew that this was wrong for me to do, at the same time I was excited that he wanted me; I just couldn’t resist myself; I was really beginning to get aroused.
He starts to fondle and kiss my boobs, we keep kissing; he takes me and gently lays me down on the bed and pulls of my hose and panties, my heart is really pounding; he looks at me and says, stunning, you are beautiful. Charles gets undressed and lays down beside me. He tells me that he has been dreaming about getting me in bed the very first time he met me, as he caresses my boobs and kisses me. He gets up on his knees as he spreads my legs and lifts them up, spreading me wide.
He asks me if I wanted him to us a condom; I told him that I had a hysterectomy years ago and that I was sure he was clean. I was shocked at the size of his tool; it was really large.
I guess he could see the surprised look on my face; that is why he spread me wide. I grab my legs; Charles slowly starts to push his tool into me, as he is looking at me and asks if I am okay; I nod my head yes. As he works to get it all in, he asks me several times if I am okay; I nod my head yes, each time. He finally gets it all in, it really felt good; he works me slowly. He asks me again if I am okay; I smile at him and tell him it feels good; he gets after it. I never felt anything like this, he had me gasping for air, my body was tingling all over. My wife told me that she never experienced an orgasm like what she did that evening, that it felt so good, I felt really relaxed afterwards. Charles told me that I was the best he’s ever had, that it reminded him of his high school days.
I told him that I had never been with another man; that this was a first for me. He asked me if I was going to be okay; I told him I was fine. (Note: I asked my wife when was the second time that she hooked up with Charles; my wife told me the next day. It took a lot of back and forth for me to get this out of my wife.)
Charles called me the next day at work and asked if I was okay; I was touched by his concern. I told him that I would stop by his hotel room on the way home to deliver some papers and asked him if that answered his question.
He told me he was looking forward to seeing me; I told him the feeling is mutual. I called Charles and told him that I was taking off early and would be at the hotel shortly.
I get to the hotel; Charles is waiting for me in the lobby. I didn’t expect him to be in the lobby and was planning on going directly to his room. I look at Charles and tell him, you know why I am here. He looks at me and says, so you want to go to my room; I tell him only if you want to. Charles smiles and we start walking to his room. He asks me again if I was okay with all this; I smile back at him and tell him I would not be her if I wasn’t.
We get to his room; I put the folder of papers on the desk; walk over to him and start kissing him, as I am unbuttoning my blouse. I get undressed as Charles starts to take his clothes off; we both get naked; I walk up to him and we start kissing again. I take Charles by the hand and lead him to the bed; we lay down on the bed.
Since I was a little sore down there, I decided to get on top of him to slowly maneuver his penis into me. It took me a while to get it all in, all the time I am dangling my boobs in his face while he is kissing them. I work him slowly and we roll over; Charles is on top of me now and we get after it. Once again, I had an unbelievable orgasm. I start to use my pelvic muscles to squeeze his penis; Charles smiles.
I told Charles that I never experienced an orgasm like I did with him; that I get turned on just thinking about it. He told me again that he dreamed about getting me in bed the first time he laid eyes on me; that I exceeded his expectations; that I was the best he has ever had; that I really know how to “work it”.
I get cleaned up; dressed, we kiss again as I get ready to leave. Charles asks, so do you want to do this again? I told him, I can’t wait and would be thinking about it all weekend. Charles told me that he would be thinking about me too and that he could do me all night long.
My wife went on to tell me; guess I just got addicted. I told her, so this went on for over three years, how often would you get together; she said at least once a week when he was in town, which was fairly often.
Before, when Charles was in town he would come to my wife’s office. After they hooked up, although Charles would still come to her office, she also started going to his hotel room during work hours to do business and satisfy her addiction.
My wife also told me that in the latter part of the affair, Charles was becoming concerned that this would get out and his wife would find out; and suggested possibly ending their relationship. It ended when his wife found out; which is when my wife first told me about the affair.