31/12/2006
Back in the late fall of 1990, I asked my wife if she would investigate nudism w/ me and she said sure, why not. Then a few months later, I showed her the ads regarding swing, but there was a definate frosty reception. I would bring it up every so often, so her question was "why, I'm not enough for you?"
That wasn't the underlaying issue, but eventually she agreed to go to the best club of WA for a "look" to shut me up. We did the tour, and SHE asked to join, but "for us to have a romantic place to show off". She set the rules, but she was the first to fall under the spell of accepting a play partner.
The events and lifestyle choices that led up to the choice to swing is that we both enjoy pronography and strip clubs. She has always been a voyeur since our first date was spent walking around Walla Walla at night looking into the open windows of houses and enjoying the decor.
Over the years, we've been in and out of the lifestyle depending upon her moods, but we always gravite back.
The originial question was How do I get the lady to swing into a threesome? We would purchase the swinger ad magazines and go thru the ads together and "pick" the people we liked. But she always said it was just a fantasy which she didn't want to make happen. Well that eventually changed and we both are agreeable to it.
Poster:
Surfer