21/07/2017
1st Time in Haulover
I want to start off by saying this is our first post. It took some time for me to convince my wife and after reading other people's experience about the Haulover nude beach, we thought it would be nice to share our moment with what we went through.
So, what made us decided to even go through with this is more of a confidence builder. We figured one of the best way is to put yourself in an uncomfortable situation and being nude for the world to see is one of the many things we can possibly do for ourselves. By no means, we are not swingers, nor looking for another partner or have an open relationship. We are just a couple looking to get our feelings out of the box and do things out of the norm including writing this post.
A little about my wife, I was her second partner in her life so the thought of this alone took some convincing to get her to even think about doing this. Me being her second partner, you can probably already assume she haven’t seen a lot of nudity in her lifetime until this moment. She is really insecure about herself even though every day I tell her beautiful she looks, but being her husband, she only thinks I’m only saying it to please her.
This trip was definitely planned so it wasn’t on the spur of the moment. We didn’t have a car so we had to cab to get there. The thought that we had even requested to travel there with a cab already had our stomach turning knowing most people probably wouldn’t just request to go to Haulover to hang out at the Marine Museum.
So, when we first got there, the first thing we seen was this sign you may encounter nudity beyond this point. It was still pretty early so we couldn’t see anyone until we walked further in more. Our thoughts rushing in our head was I hope nobody tries to harass us and how many gawkers we were going to get. So, the first thing we did was try to find a secure place where not much people were around but close enough to the water that if we decide to jump in the water, it will be a short walk.
We were surrounded by more singles than couples that day and mostly by men. I don’t recall seeing any single ladies there that day, I’m not sure if this is the norm or not. The couple that were nearby, she was topless so we thought that might be a good spot so she wouldn’t feel like being the only girl nude there.
After we settled in, I knew I had to make the first move before she even decided to strip down. So there goes, nervous as a train wreck, I stripped all the way down right before I laid down. Surprisingly my wife took her top off right away and laid down next to me even though we had had our backs facing the sky, it was still an exhilarating moment for us. Thoughts were rushing through our heads, are people staring at us, were we not good looking enough to be out there. But honestly after a few minutes, we turned around and felt as free as we ever felt in our life. We realize everyone around us was mostly nude and nobody really cared. Granted people will look, but there was nobody there gawking us as I expected. Everyone seem to mind their own business and enjoying the freedom as much as we were.
The moment when my wife stripped all the way was when an older couple, maybe in their 50’s and still good looking. They were confidently walking along the water from one end of the beach to the other, I knew that because we had seen them a few times throughout the day. We admired what they were doing from the confidence they had in themselves and not care what anyone thought of them. After their first walk through, my wife finally took the courage to strip all the way. Even after she had done that, nobody was sitting their staring at us. Yes, I did see one perv who tried to sit next to us just by seeing him constantly staring at her but he never attempted to talk to us.
So, our next question we ask ourselves, are we willing to walk or at least go in the water? We didn’t have enough courage that day to walk the beach but walking to the ocean itself felt like a long journey for us. When we finally did, it was the best free moment we had especially swimming nude in the ocean. Something we never even talked about the 1st 10 years of our marriage. All the while we were enjoying our sense of freedom and building our confidence swimming in the ocean, there were a big group that had settled in next to where we were sitting. Thoughts started rushing in our heads but not as nervous when we had first stripped down, we knew we had to walk right past them to get to our sitting area.
When we finally got out, there was definitely a lot of eyes on us probably more so on my wife. The way they were looking was more of, I’m happy they also took the courage to enjoy themselves as much as they do. And base on their face expression, it was the look when you first see beautiful people for the first time except with clothes on.
As we were leaving for the day, I didn’t have the courage to walk nude to the showers to wash off but my wife had the courage to walk topless to clean up before we left. While we were walking we had to pass a food truck with a young crowd in their bathing suits both males and females and their look on their face was priceless.
One of the male had dropped his jaw staring in awe, thinking my wife was going to cover herself up before we had pass them but nope. She walked proudly with confidence and not care what anyone thinks. That was the moment when I knew things will start to change for us. Once we reach to the shower area, there were quite a few guys there cleaning themselves up in the nude, is when she started covering up because of how close they were to us. After convincing her what she had already done through the day, we sat patiently waiting until they were done but cleaned up right after they left. While we were showering, there goes another young male that showered next to us and never thought we would ever stand literally within 1 foot from another naked person especially another male.
This is not your typical stories of what we had read here but I hope some may have enjoyed our story. Writing this was just another way to express our new sense of freedom and confidence building. It took some convincing to post this up due to potential negative feedback. But this is just another way to say it doesn’t matter what anyone may think, either positive or negative, as long as we live our life how we want to live and is what will continue to make our relationship strong.