19/04/2016
Background here is that my wife (27F) came out as submissive a while back. I tried to be dominant over her but it just didn't work, was really awkward and she just couldn't get off from it. A couple months ago she said she wanted to try it with someone else, and so we agreed that she could look. She got online, made a profile and last month met a guy (49M) that she'd talk to and cam with. Last weekend she finally met him, first for coffee, then the next day for dinner and to play. They met up again this past weekend for another play session.
We're trying to figure out like how to do this and what my involvement is - so far it's been in hearing about it. She's told me about some of their conversations, occasionally while masturbating..and she told me about their play sessions while I masturbated.
I wasn't actually planning on being involved - this was supposed to be more for her, but it turns out that I am aroused by it too, and she's open to telling me about it and he's fine with it too.
Anyone else have a BDSM angle to their wife sharing?