31/08/2007
When making this decision there are several things to consider. Some have to do with convenience and comfort. Some have to do with aesthetics. I’ll break down some of the process for you with pros and cons for you to make the decision. In doing so, I will specifically identify four regions of consideration.
The first region, I’ll call the wings. Get a hold of a traditional thong. I mean choose something like a Victoria’s Secret Signature Series thong. This is the type of thong that has some coverage in the front aside from a small triangle patch connected to the balance by strings. The area that is not covered by this thong in the front is what I am identifying as the “wings”. There are few people that are turned on by the sight of hair sticking out from a bathing suit, underwear or anything else intended to be fun and not quite completely revealing. Unless your primary person to share yourself with is specifically appreciative of this sight, I would recommend the removal of hair from that area as a BARE minimum.
The next region is around the pubic bone area above the clit. There is a specific biological purpose for this hair. When two bodies are thrust together with great force, any cushion is appreciated and can minimize fatigue. This patch of hair can act like a cushioning pillow during intercourse. As such, unless there is a specific reason for choosing to go bear, such as a treat to a partner, I would recommend retaining some hair in this region. How much hair is entirely up to you. Anything from a “basic triangle” to a “landing strip” can look very sexy, especially when it is the only hair in the area. Even if you choose to go bare there, you may wish to do it only occasionally as a “treat” for your partner, just for the benefit of the cushion. However, I do know that knowing you have nothing there can lead to a feeling of being naughty, which can lead to further arousal. Again, this is your decision, so have fun with it.
The third region is the actually pussy itself. Again, there are strong pros and cons here. I will lead this to a recommendation at the end that I like. Smooth is extremely arousing for both you and most partners that you may choose. When smooth, you can feel it against your clothing more, and it makes you think about it a little more, and can lead to that naughty arousal feeling again. When smooth and lubricated, it is really fun to rub, and do more with. All in all, a great time for all involved. However, think for a moment about having a bug, such as an ant, crawling up your arm. What you really sense is the contact with the hairs on your arm. When you or a partner glides fingers or other foreign objects just over, making contact with only the hair, that too can be very arousing. Complete loss of this sensation can be a bummer. There is a little of the grass is always greener scenario. You can’t be both blonde and brunette. You can’t have both long and short hair. However, you can have both pubic hair and no pubic hair… sequentially. Another thing to take into account is that pubic hair attracts moisture. It takes more lubrication to completely saturate when there is pubic hair in this area. Likewise, during that time of the month, it can attract other moisture. Things just seem to stay a little cleaner when there is no pubic hair during this time period. That is what leads to my recommendation. It is to go bare in this area for a couple weeks of the month, and let it grow the other couple weeks. Of course you would want the bare time to include THAT time to maximize the benefit.
That last region is not the front at all. Technically the difference between a Brazilian Wax, and a traditional wax job it that the Brazilian Wax clears the entire area, including the rear. There are commonly long hairs around this area. Mind you, there is not nearly as much as guys have, but there is still plenty. There are three leading methods to remove hair, and my recommendation would depend on what method you are choosing. If you are using a razor and shaving, I think it best to forgo the shave back there. Instead, I would recommend using some trimmers to just shorten them as much as practical. The stubble feels a little funny, but it is much more inviting, especially to the tongue. If you use a hair removal cream, such as Nair, then go ahead and include the area around the butt hole. It is not that much effort for a positive result. If you are waxing, I don’t recommend it for the first time you are waxed. The first time is typically the most painful time. You have experienced enough trauma. Give yourself a break and wait for the third time, or so.
Now for an analysis of those methods…
SHAVING… Shaving is the method that we most commonly think of when clearing hair down there. It is reasonably effective and efficient. However, there are some things that we should be thinking about when making this choice. First, how new is your blade. If you have used it on your pits or legs, it is not a blade for this region. You want a blade that is as sharp as possible for the best, and most comfortable, results. I recommend having two razors that you can identify at a glance. One is for new blades used exclusively for this area, and the second is for blades that have already been used there, and are now to be used for the pits and legs. If you can afford it, it is best to start with a new blade every time you shave. However, you should be shaving about every other day for best results. You may wish to stretch that to two or three uses to save a little money. But that is up to you and your skin. You don’t want to have a bad experience shaving, or it may dampen the enthusiasm of the practice. Nobody wants that. If you do shave, I strongly encourage you to have your partner do it every once and a while. It is fun, exciting, and also leads them to appreciate your efforts a little more.
CREAM… This is a process that should be done at least weekly, but twice a week for better results. It is less expensive and time intensive than the shaving, but there is waiting time for it to do the job. When applying it, be careful to keep it external on the backside, and out of the inner lips on the front. This is a method that may work for most people, but some have bad reactions. There are variables of your skin type, hair type, duration of time you leave it on (which the two previous will significantly affect), and even temperature. If you wish to use a cream, work your way around in experiments. Start with only using it on the “wing” area. If there is a bad reaction, at least it is much less sensitive there. Then if all goes well, on the next application, take it in further, until you can ultimately apply it everywhere you want hair gone. Plan each application to be just before taking a shower. Once the time of reaction has expired, you want to remove the cream thoroughly. This is the best place to ensure complete removal, and the best overall results.
WAXING… This is something that takes a little more of a commitment. It certainly is done less often, but the others are done in the privacy of your own home and can be done without anyone else knowing. As such, there is the added dimension of psychology that needs to be taken into account here. I’ll get to that too. But first, there are some basic things to know that I alluded to in the hair removal of the rear end section. That is the experience. If you have never waxed before, you have hair roots that have been part of you for a long time in there. They have grown with you, and really become part of you. The first time you are waxed, you will be removing most of those roots with the hair. In the understatement of the day, I will call this “slightly less than comfortable”. The degrees of pain really depend on the person, the thickness of the hair, and the person’s tolerance for pain. Women can endure child birth, and we are not talking anything close to that level of pain, so don’t let this scare you off. And if you had it done once, don’t let that time scare you away from doing it again. The second time you get it done, most of the “old roots” have been removed, so it is much less painful. However, there are many hairs at different stages of development, so you will have some more. By the completion of the third time, you should be rid of “old roots” and only have the new ones. The new ones are younger and smaller in diameter. As such, they are significantly less painful to remove. If you think about giving waxing a try, I strongly recommend you commit to at least three times of the procedure before you hang it up and swear never again. This will give it a fair shake. Knowing that so many people do this regularly should tell you that it is not as bad as you might imagine, or that first experience might suggest. And again, I don’t recommend a Brazilian on the first time either. However, it is certainly worth experimenting with at later appointments.
Now for the psychological side of this decision. The more conservative of you would not consider showing yourself off to someone you don’t know well. However, you do it regularly. You go to doctor for annual checks, or prenatal care, and even get penetrated by these people. For most of you, this is not your favorite part of the day. However, it also is not the end of the World either. So if it is what it takes to get over it, think of it as a medical procedure. To offer this service, they do have to go through significant technical training, so most are professionals. The next obstacle is location. You have two options, close by for convenience, or across town to minimize the likelihood of running into this person at the grocery store, for instance. To some, this would be a very embarrassing situation. Convenience is great, but comfort is more important. Drive a few miles every once and a while if it makes you more comfortable between visits. Then there is the person. Both males and females offer this procedure. There are some women that would “just die” for a male to see them in that situation. Then choose a female to do it. On the other hand, there are many females who may be a little homophobic, or maybe a little squeamish, about having another female touch them down there, at least a male would seem more “normal”. Go with what feels right to you. Nobody is forcing you into one or the other. You want to be as comfortable as possible so you do not dread this and find excuses to not do it. And due to the nature of this website, I will take this a step farther. The removal of hair by ripping it out is a little traumatic to the skin. After the removal is complete, there is cream that is applied to sooth the skin and help it heal faster and smoother. You are in control of the biggest erogenous zone in the body, and it is between your ears. When your lover is rubbing a lubricant around the same area, surely it turns you on. “I dare you” to think about this application in the same way. If you are with a male that is doing it, you can think about how naughty you are almost “cheating” on you significant other, and he is o.k. with it. If you are with a female, WOW! When was the last time you had another sexual experience with another female. For most of you, never. This can be a fun “experimentation” that is completely “safe”. It may also be just the experience you need to be motivated for that next visit.
AND NOW FOR THE DARE… Now that I have shared my analysis, I have a dare for all the female readers. For that matter, for the male readers, I encourage you to dare your wives and girlfriends to take this up as well. I dare you to submit to Truth or Dare Pics dot Com your pubic hair preferences and experiences with an explanation. For those that do not include pictures, they can be posted in the stories section. However, I further dare you to include pictures of your pubic hair treatment that can be posted in the blog section. Remember, you can not be identified by a close up shot down there, and your email address does not need to be posted online, so don’t use that as an excuse. You are here, so you are a little adventurous. Go ahead and take that next step and share with us…