07/01/2010
As I read most of the 'Posts' here in the ToDP, I see a lot of couples bring an excuse to the fore. There is almost always a mention of 'then we all got drunk'.
This situation will be followed by 'then, we had sex and fucked each other's wives.'
My point is this. 'Sex' is a beautiful thing.
When I see a beautiful women and i feel a stirring in my crotch and I feel that it would be beautiful to 'fuck' her, then it is a natural feeling.
The first point is, as a man, I am not sexually attracted to all women. Some women I would definitely like to 'do'. but a lot of women i am not sexually attracted. Don't ask me why? I do not know the reason.
It is like one may not like all the 'flavours' in an ice-cream shop. I personally prefer dark chocolate flavour. So, likewise we like some people of the opposite sex and we may not like some.
Under the circumstances, It is perfectly healthy to want to have sex with the people we like. It could be individuals or with the couples that one may know.
If one is comfortable, Group sex is wonderful too.
Imagine, in a group, suddenly no one 'belongs' to anyone as such. It is not that my wife is my 'property' that she has to have sex only with me and no one else. And suddenly one is liberated from the rules and regulations set in by the society.As such most rules ares human-made to suit his or her
own purposes.
If she is comfortable and enjoys it totally without guilt, then she should do it. Likewise I will not need my wife's permission to 'fuck' another female, if the women in question is comfortable with me.
So, instead of being honest with the fact that we all want to 'do' it with others, almost all people bring in the 'alcohol' factor.
So to all 'folks' out there, just enjoy the sex. As such the researchers (who else?) have found that sex is good for great health.
Have no guilt. If you are attracted to your friends spouse, just express and if they are OK with that, Just Do It. (as Nike says). Do not blame poor 'alcohol'. It is as if everything done under the influence of alcohol is acceptable.
Just Do it when you are young and rocking. As such a few years from now you will not be able even if you want to. It is widely believed that VIAGRA actually does not work. ;-)
It would be such a beautiful feeling to invite our 'friends' home and share our spouses with each other. Its like inviting friends home for dinner because the wife is a great cook.
Similarly the wife or husband may be a great lover and it would such a beautiful feeling to share 'fucking' skills with the friends. We can teach some and we can learn some.
As such time will run out.
Poster:
ted baxter