27/08/2025
It’s no secret that guys fantasize about seeing their woman naked more often. But what do you do if she’s not willing to strip down as much as you’d like? Here are a few tips to help you fulfill your wildest fantasies.
First, connect with her on more than a sexual level. Women crave connection, and if she senses that you only want sex, it’s going to be harder to turn her on than it should be. Plan a date that’s focused on connecting person-to-person without the pressure of sex. My guess is that you’ll both be naked and satisfied by the end of the night.
Second, ask her to take a shower with you. Invest in one of those dual shower heads. They’re not terribly pricey and are easy to install. It’s a lot more fun to share a shower when you both get hot water. Definitely take the opportunity to gaze upon her beauty, tell her how sexy she is, and feel all over her body. Tell her this is one of your fantasies and how excited you are to fulfill it with her. It’s quite possible you’ll be in sexual heaven by the time you turn off the water.
Third, ask her to start sleeping naked with you (except during those few days of the month). It might be weird at first, but sleeping nude has lead to the best sleep of my life, and that’s the case with everyone I know who’s tried it. Plus, plenty of skin to skin contact releases oxytocin in the brain, which naturally helps to turn both of you on.
Invite her to a no-clothes-allowed movie date on the couch. Her choice of movie. Touch, cuddling, fingering, and kissing encouraged!
Make sure to let her know that nudity does not always mean sex. It means sharing your bodies with each other, and just because she strips down doesn’t mean you want or expect sex at that moment. As counterintuitive as that might seem, she’ll probably want to be naked and have sex even more. After all, you’re giving her the dignity to choose for herself.
Next, fantasize with her about having sex in a place other than your bedroom. If she brings up any objections, don’t disregard them, but simply say “but if we could….” Let her start thinking about it. What about a blowjob in the office, oral pleasure for her in the kitchen, penetration on the couch, or even sex on the hood of your car?
At this point, hopefully you’re seeing a lot more of your significant other in the nude than before. If she really starts fantasizing for herself about branching out, she’ll probably bring up the idea on her own within a few weeks. Keep bringing up the idea when it’s appropriate to do so and let her fantasize too.
When the time is right, start small. Let the timing, place, and specifics be her idea. Afterwards, let her know how much you appreciate her and the sex. Praise her body and how gorgeous it is. Look her in the eye and tell her how much you love her. If she had fun and felt connected to, she’ll be wanting more soon.
For more ideas on fulfilling your wildest fantasies, check out my posts starting in December 2023 called Building Confidence Dares. Good luck, and may your skin be ever showing!
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